Overcoming self-sabotage, being kind to yourself, and building consistency


Have you been really hard on yourself lately? I know I have and honestly I didn't even realize it because I was so caught up in trying to become all that God called me to be that I forgot to slow down and appreciate all that I've already become.

The truth is, you've worked hard to get to the current version of yourself and she deserves a round of applause! You may not be where you want to be yet, but you are on your way. The journey matters just as much as the destination. God see's you trying and He's proud of you! In fact, He had me create this video to encourage you and cover you in prayer.

With Love,

Coach Kylia

Here's What's New on YouTube

God says He's proud of you. Stop being so hard on yourself

Feeling like you're not where you want to be in life? Feel like you're doing all you can but it's still not enough? In this video, I share some encouragement for how to stop being so hard on yourself.

The Truth About Consistency

If you're struggling to be consistent, I want to share with you 4 things that I learned that will help you feel less alone in your journey and motivate you to keep going when you feel discouraged.

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Scripture of the Week

"I [The Lord] will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you" - Psalm 32:8 AMPC

Let's Execute!

Review your new years goals: One of the reasons most people don't reach their new years goals is because they are "out of sight, out of mind". Take a moment to review your goals and assess how close you are to accomplishing them. This is a time re-evaluate how you're spending your time.

That's it for this week!


Kylia Jackson | Life Coach + Execution Strategist

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